A powerful personal testimony and an urgent call for Israel to change direction, from an unexpected source: the former director of the internal security service, Shin Bet.
Raised on a kibbutz by parents who had fled the Holocaust, Ami Ayalon’s life exemplified the Zionist dream. His commitment to his country propelled a meteoric career, culminating in being named commander of the navy and receiving the Medal of Valour, Israel’s highest military decoration. All the time, he remained a staunch supporter of his country’s policies.
Then he was appointed director of the Shin Bet, Israel’s internal security service, and the unexpected happened. Forced to try and understand the lives and motivations of Palestinians for the first time, he gained empathy for ‘the enemy’ and learned that when Israel carries out anti-terrorist operations in a political context of hopelessness, the Palestinian public will support violence, because they have nothing to lose.
He came to understand that his patriotic life had blinded him to the self-defeating nature of policies that have undermined Israel’s civil society while heaping humiliation upon its neighbours. In this deeply personal journey of discovery, Ami Ayalon seeks input and perspectives from Palestinians and Israelis whose experiences differ from his own, and draws radical conclusions about what Israel must do to achieve relative peace and security.
Show moreA powerful personal testimony and an urgent call for Israel to change direction, from an unexpected source: the former director of the internal security service, Shin Bet.
Raised on a kibbutz by parents who had fled the Holocaust, Ami Ayalon’s life exemplified the Zionist dream. His commitment to his country propelled a meteoric career, culminating in being named commander of the navy and receiving the Medal of Valour, Israel’s highest military decoration. All the time, he remained a staunch supporter of his country’s policies.
Then he was appointed director of the Shin Bet, Israel’s internal security service, and the unexpected happened. Forced to try and understand the lives and motivations of Palestinians for the first time, he gained empathy for ‘the enemy’ and learned that when Israel carries out anti-terrorist operations in a political context of hopelessness, the Palestinian public will support violence, because they have nothing to lose.
He came to understand that his patriotic life had blinded him to the self-defeating nature of policies that have undermined Israel’s civil society while heaping humiliation upon its neighbours. In this deeply personal journey of discovery, Ami Ayalon seeks input and perspectives from Palestinians and Israelis whose experiences differ from his own, and draws radical conclusions about what Israel must do to achieve relative peace and security.
Show moreAdmiral (Ret.) Ami Ayalon is the former commander of the Israeli
navy, director of the Shin Bet security agency, cabinet minister,
Knesset member, and recipient of the Medal of Valour, Israel’s
highest military decoration. He organised and was featured in the
Academy Award-nominated documentary The Gatekeepers.
Anthony David, a historian and biographer, teaches creative writing
at the University of New England’s campus in Tangier, Morocco.
‘How can a staunch Zionist who was raised on one of Israel’s
earliest settlements and trained as a kill-or-be-killed elite
commando spearhead a campaign for peace with his enemies? The
answer, in Ami Ayalon’s captivating narrative, is an eye-opener for
Palestinians and Israelis alike.’
*Sari Nusseibeh, author of Once Upon a Country: a Palestinian
life, former president of the Al-Quds University and former
Palestinian National Authority representative in Jerusalem*
‘Remarkable.’
*Monocle*
‘Fascinating and well-written.’
*Jewish Chronicle*
‘[Friendly Fire] is a personal, intellectual and philosophical
journey.’
*Haaretz*
‘[Ayalon’s] aims and accomplishments are … undeniably impressive …
Hope finds a prominent presence in what so many think is a
hopeless, endless conflict.’
*Kirkus Reviews*
‘Ami Ayalon discusses how he came to see a two-state solution with
the Palestinians as the best way to ensure Israel's security, not
just through analysing numbers and statistics, but through a
humanistic approach. He discusses … how his humanist paradigm not
only allowed him to see how the Palestinians’ grievances and
aspirations are intertwined with Israel’s security, but also how he
still acknowledges and sympathises with the narratives of those in
Israel whom he may disagree with.’
*The Times of Israel*
‘Friendly Fire is not simply a critique, but a strong mandate for a
complete overhaul of Israel's policy toward countering Palestinian
terrorism — with clear lessons for counterterrorism policy far
beyond the region … [A] powerful critique of the Israeli
politicians on both the left and right … [A] story of immense
bravery: bravery to speak truth to power; bravery to speak out
against injustice — even when it is committed on one’s behalf and
in one's name; bravery to acknowledge one’s own participation in
and responsibility for such injustice; and, finally, bravery to
demand accountability from oneself and from others.’
*Molly Ellenberg, Modern War Institute*
‘Friendly Fire is full of fascinating anecdotes from a life lived
on the sidelines of some of the most momentous events in the recent
history of the Middle East.’
*Dubbo Mailbox Shopper*
‘[A] compact, compelling memoir … [S]moothly written … [A]fter
Ayalon retired as head of Shin Bet he decided almost everything he
had done as a soldier and a supervisor of secret agents had
actually reduced the prospects for peace and security.’
*The Guardian*
‘[A]n idealistic, yet sober and realistic, vision of what is needed
to advance the prospects of peace.’
*The Times of Israel*
‘Reading Ayalon’s revealing book, one can see that he has come a
long way. Perhaps his most commendable conclusion is that Israel
will never achieve peace until “we change the narrative about the
past and admit to ourselves that the Palestinians have a right to
their own country alongside Israel, and on land we claim as
ours”.’
*The Nation*
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